You have it all. Motivation when you feel defeated.

You have it all. Motivation when you feel defeated.

10

August, 2020

Opening the blinds.

You have it all.

Courage,

strength,

intelligence and

patience.

You have a soul,

a goal,

a reason, a vision, a belief.

You are true to yourself.

You have respect and self-worth that you practice day and night.

Night and day, you practice and practice what your heart says.

You don’t care whether they believe in you or not because you believe in yourself.

You are the one who decides.

You are the one who pushes.

You are the one who accepts the challenge.

You are the one who falls and rises again and again even when impossible is the pain.

You have arrows stabbed in your back.

You are betrayed,

tortured,

and denied the right to be human.

But you don’t give up because you have it.

You have it all.

A free soul,

a heart of gold and a mind that knows no limits.

You can be caged but the will is something that cannot be chained.

You will come back and lead.

Because you are hurt but you are not weak.

You are silent but you are not passive.

You have lost but you are not a loser.

You fail but you don’t quit.

You are nice but not easy.

You don’t hate but you confront.

You do adjustments but you don’t do compromises.

You listen but following is optional.

You don’t chase people.

You don’t discount yourself.

You have no one but you have you.

You have your back.

You are a warrior, not a slave.

Maybe you can be harmed but cannot be defeated.

You are your defence system.

You are your shield and your sword.

You are your hope.

You are your light.

You are the one who is going to do it all.

You are your employee and you are your boss.

You have it all so where is your loss?

No one can be you.

No one can steal you.

No one can copy you.

So get your life back NOW.

And don’t expect or wait for someone to tell you, suggest you, help you to get out of the ruts.

You do it on your own because they no nothing about your soul. They think you have lost it. Don’t chase them to understand you as you understand yourself. You don’t need them to trust you. Your trust in yourself is more than enough.

So go after your dreams because you have it all.

Yes, 101% you have it all.

 

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Self-talk to boost the tired self. Never give up.

Self-talk to boost the tired self. Never give up.

3

August, 2020

Opening the blinds.

You didn’t give up.

You were just tired.

Tired of waiting.

One season that never ends.

But you know every season has a timeline.

So no matter how annoying and hopeless it sounds right now the truth is it shall pass too.

But when?

When?

I am not going to lie.

I don’t know when but it’s destined to pass.

You just hang in there.

Why?

Because you didn’t come so far to quit?

Don’t throw it away. Please.

Remember the reason you started it for.

Remember how many years it took you to become the person you are today?

Remember how many heartbreaks and how many trails of falling and rising it took you to raise this?

You can’t let it go waste.

I know you are really tired but you invested your life into this.

I know you have lost so much but now you cannot afford to lose yourself.

Don’t forget the price you paid to find yourself.

You knew it from the beginning that you are on your own in this?

You were aware that you are walking on the less travelled road and it is not going to be easy and you will not be accepted.

I get it you are scared.

I know you feel that you are behind but you are not. Your life was on a different path than others. You have been through things they can’t even imagine.

It’s easy for them to point fingers at you but they are not in your shoes.

So don’t be disheartened by what you heard or how they treat you. Trust me a day will come when they will ask for your reference.

You have to be your saviour and get yourself out of ruts.

You are tired so take a break but don’t break up with what you have been building for so many years.

It’s okay to be scared and perfectly fine to pour your heart in front of a mirror or just share it with your pillow. You are human and you allowed to feel weak.

But don’t allow anyone to treat you wrong. Don’t give anyone key to your brain to mess it up.

Don’t allow them to be disrespectful towards your failure because you earned these failures. As deep down inside you know every single mistake took you to another level.

You are on a journey of spiritual succession and your physical reality will soon reciprocate.

Just keep pushing.

You are doing great.

Be proud of your past achievements.

This shall pass too.

You will be at the place you want to be.

Everything that you have sowed shall bloom.

Keep watering it.

 

 

 

 

Her Self

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Self-talk to boost the tired self. Never give up.

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Can you dare to keep up with your self worth? An inspirational personal challenge.

27

July, 2020

Opening the blinds.

 

In the middle of the pandemic,

in the middle of this madness of uncertainty,

when everyone is losing faith,

fearing loss of life,

fearing a huge economic crisis.

When all hopes are gone and you are being slapped by one failure after other.

When you have lost in the final round and everyone treats you like an animal in a zoo.

Can you?

Can you?

DARE TO START AGAIN?

Your back is crushed and the heart is full of pain and not even one person is ready to give you a hand.

Can you?

DARE TO MAKE A COMEBACK?

Can you dare to believe in yourself again?

Can you dare to reinvent yourself?

Can you bet on yourself one more time?

Can you dare to say:

I am fine.

I just need a moment.

I am conscious of myself.

I need to pull myself together.

I can’t give up now.

I can’t let all my hard work go waste.

I have to push.

I can’t afford to be tired.

I have given everything to this I cannot go back now.

I can fix this.

I can turn things around.

I can create an opportunity.

I can get this done.

I can rebuild my investment.

Of course, I can.

Why can’t I?

I am emotionally intelligent.

I am the in-charge of my consent.

I can protect my boundaries and people between them.

I can bring life back to track.

I believe myself.

2020 is still my year.

I am not letting anything take this away from me.

I will accomplish what I want to.

I will not discount my self-respect.

I am still confident.

Things will not get normal but will get better than normal.

I will make them better.

I am ready with my best shot.

I can and I will.

WILL YOU DARE?

WILL YOU DARE TO TAKE THIS PERSONAL CHALLENGE?

OR WILL CHOOSE TO PROVE PEOPLE TREATING YOU LIKE AN ANIMAL IN A ZOO RIGHT?

Will you prove them right that you are delusional?

Will you provide them with a licence to stop and bully all those people who like you are aiming high?

Will you let them walk over your dreams and abuse your vision for the rest of your life?

Will you give control to the people who never believed in you, disrespected you and harassed your loved ones for believing in you?

OR will you DARE to take control back and bet on yourself to push it until your last breath and take chance to succeed even if it is one per cent and make your dear ones proud?

Will you dare to do anything and everything to make your vision come true even if you have to stay alone and suffer for years?

Will you dare to count on your soul one more time while everyone is laughing at you?

 WILL YOU DARE TO KEEP UP WITH YOUR SELFWORTH?

 

 

Her Self

Poetry Book

Available at Amazon

Awaits

Romantic Drama Available at Amazon

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Self-talk to boost the tired self. Never give up.

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When you are done you are home. Self-awareness and acknowledgement.

When you are done you are home. Self-awareness and acknowledgement.

20

July, 2020

Opening the blinds.

When you are done you are home.

When you stop saying:

Let me explain.

Listen to me once.

I didn’t do it.

I was just trying to…

And you allow them to carry on with there assumptions. You are done and you are home.

When you stop seeking yes for everything.

Do I look good?

Do you think I gained weight?

Do you think it’s going to work?

Do you think I can…

You are done and you are home.

When lack of company doesn’t bother you and isolation is not loneliness but solitude.

When their comments don’t bother you.

When you start processing your thoughts.

When you can keep your head high while walking through rejections.

When you dare to say no while you are being compelled to say yes and you have no regrets.

You are done and you are home.

When you stop clarifying,

begging,

pleasing someone to stay, understand and give you a chance.

When you stop searching for a home in people and seek it within you are done and you are at home.

When you embrace the way you look.

When you start addressing your choices as your decisions.

When failing is a stepping stone not a matter of shame.

When you dare to move on from your guilt.

When you are looking for respect instead of attention.

When you have learnt to live in present without pining for the past and fearing future.

When you are over the theories of you complete me or I complete you.

When you stop disturbing the pattern of life and start believing in the process and respect the timing.

YOU ARE DONE AND YOU ARE HOME.

Her Self

Poetry Book

Available at Amazon

Awaits

Romantic Drama Available at Amazon

Self-talk to boost the tired self. Never give up.

Self-talk to boost the tired self. Never give up.

3 August, 2020Opening the blinds.You didn’t give up. You were just tired. Tired of waiting. One season that never ends. But you know every season has a timeline. So no matter how annoying and hopeless it sounds right now the truth is it shall pass too. But when? When?...

Love is romantic only sometimes most of the times it’s mundane. Crazy relationship

Love is romantic only sometimes most of the times it’s mundane. Crazy relationship

13

July, 2020

Opening the blinds.

Every morning you have to wake up next to this person. He looks miserable and you are no better either. You have to make breakfast and its definitely not muffins but something nutritious which your kids won’t like. Your home is a mess and your kids are not willing to finish their homework and somehow you drag yourself to work where your boss is not even human and life goes on.

Yes, it still does. You want to take a break but you can’t because your friend is getting married and she wants you to help find her dream and a perfect wedding dress and finally when you find one it’s not available. After babysitting your crying friend for whom unavailability of the dress is the end of the world you rush back home where your kids are waiting for you with lipstick all over their faces blaming each other.

You are angry and want to scream but you manage to act patient. It was a long day but it’s not over yet. Well, the eldest child of the family (husband) is back who cannot keep things on the right place and you cannot stop correcting him. Although, you are aware of the fact that argument won’t help but you argue with him anyways and you don’t forget to mention that kids have not seen their grandparents from last six months and in his defense, he has been extremely busy. Oops, he made a wrong move and now it’s a mess. Rolling in the bed you are thinking why did I marry this absent mind idiot who cannot even remember his own sister’s birthday. What did I do to deserve this? I am like his personal assistant and I am not even paid.

But your daily schedule brings you back on your feet until you receive a call. Your father wants you to come immediately because the mother is sick and her condition is critical. You lose your balance and the absent mind idiot leaves everything in the middle and drives the whole family to your parents and argues with the doctor when he says its not in his hands now.

Love is romantic but only sometimes most of the times it’s mundane.

You won’t go to a candlelight dinner every week. Maybe he will forget the anniversary, you will make a big deal out of everything. He will be annoying and you will be the irritating one. As far as kids are concerned they are meant to get on your nerves. You will probably never get quality time with each other but you will make it as two of you will be there for each other for better and for worse.

Your smile says the rest.

 

 

Her Self

Poetry Book

Available at Amazon

Awaits

Romantic Drama Available at Amazon

Self-talk to boost the tired self. Never give up.

Self-talk to boost the tired self. Never give up.

3 August, 2020Opening the blinds.You didn’t give up. You were just tired. Tired of waiting. One season that never ends. But you know every season has a timeline. So no matter how annoying and hopeless it sounds right now the truth is it shall pass too. But when? When?...