What is confidence and what is not? Self Awareness.

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August, 2020

Opening the blinds.

Confidence is not that I have contacts, there is a perfect step by step guide that I have figured out and I can just slide in now.

But confidence is I don’t know anyone, I don’t have a huge following, people have hardly seen me but I will try to connect. I don’t know how it’s going to be but at least I know the first step.

It’s not I am the best and I can take care of it better than anybody else. But its yes there are other wonderful artists but I am best in my way and I will give my best shot and let’s just take one step at a time.

Confidence is not oh it will sell and I will make a million bucks in a night. Confidence is like it will take time but it will sell eventually. Maybe I need to have some sleepless nights before I have my overnight success.

Confidence is independent of feeling I cannot afford it; this camera is not good enough or no one will look at me. Confidence lies in the smile when you look in the mirror and you say yeah, I am pretty. Brands don’t give you confidence but the dress you earned does. Maybe it’s going to take some time to earn it but consistency is the key to eventuality.

Confidence is not that you will not get nervous. Of course, you will but you will tell yourself just breathe you have rehearsed enough you can do this and then you step on the stage. People are staring at you and this makes you more nervous but this time you refuse to fall for your fears. You shift your 100% focus on your performance and give it all you have. Soon you start hearing people cheering for you. Now your confidence gains momentum and the next thing you know you have stepped in their hearts and now you don’t just have a following but a fan following.

Now you are absolutely without any doubt confident ready to pass the message to the one struggling with it.

 

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